> I believe in love. I think it just hits you and pulls the rug out from underneath you and, like a baby, demands your attention every minute of the day. - Jodi Picoult
Love is an important aspect of life that we all need to inculcate and as well exhibit to make the world a better place, and it's goes beyond just saying the word I love you, because love is sacrifice, it's commitment, it is also an act of showing affection and I believe there are many other terms and beautiful words we can associate love with, but to cap it all up, I believe love is life.
My message to you about love today is prompted by the @hive-learners Community feature topic for the 2nd edition of the fourth week of the weekly features topic in the hive learners community, and the question to be discuss about is as stated below;
FOR LOVE At one time or the other, we all have been in love. Many of us are even in love now. So tell us all those things you can do for love, how far you are willing to go. And then the things you will never do. We would love to know.
I believe we all have a story to tell about our love life and some helpful tips that as worked for your and your relationship, which you'll like to share fur others to learn from as well, you can share your experiences and help tips as related to the questions above in the hive learners community.
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Like I said earlier, love is life, and some of the reason why I said so is because, love is one of the core essence of life that keeps us going, striving and brooding our personality to become a better version of ourselves just to make our love one's happy and as well meet their needs.
I for example usually feel at peace whenever I'm around my love once( be it family or friends) and my joy always knows no bound whenever I see them happy and in good health, but if transgress to the relationship aspect of love, though I'm not presently in love with anyone, but I've once been in love and I must confess, it was one of the best moments of my life.
Well that's a story for another day, so without further ado, let dive into my do's and don't of love
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WHAT I DO FOR LOVE
They're are many things I can do for love and the people I love, and below are some of it;
- SACRIFICE MY TIME, MONEY AND ATTENTION
There is this believe I have that no one is actually really busy, because if you really love and care about someone, then you'll try and look for all meaning to be with them or give them your attention to show that you really care.
I could remember I once travel from Yobe state to Lagos state, thats about two days journey, just to pay a surprise visit to my lover then, I ended up being the one receiving the greater suprise, 🙄 see them, they've already cross leg to read the full detail of how I was surprised, well sorry to disappoint you, I would be sharing that today.
But the major thing there is that I'll always strive to dish out all my given opportunity to my love once so there would be an opportunity for loopholes like I once experienced.
- ALWAYS TRY TO MEET THEIR NEEDS
I'll always strive to meet the needs of my love one's and make sure they're happy and get the best of everything I could afford, which could have lead to others enticing them with such.
In this context, I'm referring to all my love once, be it family, friends or lover, as we all know, everyone deserves good things and gift, and when you can meet the needs of your love one's, this naturally brings you joy to you, and they in return will love you more and come to a concession that you really love and care about them.
I believe this is health for all forms of relationship.
- COMMUNICATION
Communicating with our love one's is the bound that keeps and tighten the understanding our our relationship, it's also helps us understand their personality better and as well know their needs, Challenges and view on some of our character.
So I believe to have a healthy relationship, I'll have to always stay in contact with me love one's, be their favourite gist partner and much more.
Show me a relationship that lacks communication, and I'll show you a relationship on the verge of misunderstanding and breakup.
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THINGS I CAN'T DO FOR LOVE
I believe the following are bad and would mostly likely leads to the end of a relationship, and they are the things I can never do for love.
- LIES
Yes I know you'll say men as scum and the likes, of cause just like most men and women, I've once lied to my lover once, and I've seen the repercussions it left behind on our relationship, so know I know better and will always try not to tell lies to my love one's, no matter how hard the truth my be, I'll try to say it rather than lose their trust when they find out elsewhere.
- STEAL OR KILL
These are bad stuffs that I'll affect others, and one of my core mandate is to try no to hurt anyone, so no matter the situation, I'll never hurt, steal or kill anyone just to please my love one's.
If I noticed my efforts and income doesn't seems enough to contend you as my love, then I'll rather let you go than hurt others.
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Those are the few points of mine, but one other question that lingers in my heart is; CAN I DIE FOR LOVE?
Well the question as many side in my I could answer it,
- for example breaking up with me will never make me take my life or hurt myself.
- God forbid, but if any of my love one's have a form of illness that require some of my organs, then will can easily lay down my life by giving out mine, just to make sure they are fine.
I'm a very emotional kind of man who dislikes since people close to me in unpleasant situation, and I believe this is what will lead to such decisions from me.
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Thanks for coming with me thus far till this very point, so;
- what's your opinion about the things I can do for love?
- What's your opinion on things I can never do for love?
- What's your view on my laying down my life for love one's?
- Can you die for love?
Let discuss the above questions and many more in the comments section.
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