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Along the path I'll love to share some marital/relationship advice base on the recent occurrence that lead to the death of a gospel musician madam Osinachi, domestic violence is on the rise each day, and both gender falls victim, though women are the major victim of such act, and I think it's high time we realize that, walking always from an abusive marriage isn't a sin, and as a people set up a concrete law that severely punished those involved.
And about the musician in question, I felt perhaps she was afraid of what people will say if she divorce her husband, being a gospel musician who preach the love of God via her songs, but now look where it as got herπ₯Ί -the grave.
We are a very religious set of people in my country and I don't think women have enough backing of the law here like they do in most developed nations of the world, so I guess this is why most men felt they could maltreat their wife anyhow they like.
I hope most men or women going through domestic violence will learn from her case and run away from a toxic relationship or marriage, rather than fall victim like she was, marriage is meant to be enjoyed, not to be ensured.
when someone claims to love you and yet beat you, just know you're in a wrong part of life, there is no justification for such act, if you can't divorce, due to religions believe, then move out of that house to excuse or separate yourself from such partner for as long as you can, till you're sure they've understand their wrongs, are remorseful and not gonna indulge in such act again.
And just now while writing this content, I got a notification from one of the comic actress Taaooma I followed on YouTube that she just uploaded a video, and going through it, I realize it portral the same message, Though in this case the lady ended up stabing the husband cause she can't take it anymore.
But you don't have to wait till you become a murderer before you walk away, of cause you may think the law will protect you, stating that's it's self defense,
- but can you get over such act and trauma?
- And what if you're the one on the wrong side or the receiving endπ
I hope everyone who abuse their partners stop such act, if you truly love a person, you'll work towards make them happy, and make others jealous of what you've got, not the other way round when people now have empathy for your partner due to how you maltreated them.
And if you're not yet married to that person will is constantly beating you, and saying he/she is sorry, that it's a mistake, that's a greenlight telling you, such place is a now go area, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage, run for your life.
The same people you are afraid of their opinion will be the one to criticize you, don't let the fear of what people will say keep you in bondage.
Return from DEPRESSION: STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE to vickoly's Web3 Blog
